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Hello!

Back again...Sorry about the long silence!



Sooooo what do I have to rant about now eh blog?
Not so much honestly..not bitter, sad, going crazy but faily neutral plus slightly tipping on optimism..

Another year is about to be added to my current years on this earth officially...
I'm excited, positive, but also in denial.. the last bit will have to be discussed at another time.

All in all I am grateful to God & continually give him my thanks intensely at sporadic random moments when it suddenly strikes me of how lucky I am...


On another note, another year added has subtracted another level of tolerance.If tolerance could be quantified in say litres, I could say I've had about 5litres taken off as another year has been added.
Out of a total of what litres you ask? Honestly I don't know what the overall level of my tolerance is, I suprise myself at times with the total content!

I am lucky and thankful to have some wonderful friends.
Frenemies, I try not to indulge in, just for sanity's sake.
As I consider it really tiresome trying to figure out what page we are on half the time.
So I keep an exclusive group close to my chest.

I would consider myself a happy go lucky kinda person with friendships in the sense that as quickly as I bounce into them could also be as quickly as I bounce out, but yet hold on to the exceptionally good ones tighter than a leech. (I would like to think this was normal for most people)

I don't really think I'm one to continually point out faults or issues that peeve me off when done by friends, a little joke here and there, but then gradually I just ignore OR end up cutting off the person abruptly when they go waaayyy past that line they shouldn't have crossed.(Major fault here I know!)
But then how do they know..


How does one choose friends? I honestly don't know... Just having one interest in common starts it all I suppose. Several interests.. only helps to cement the foundations.

Lately I've been experiencing this issue where people complain that noone is there for them, yet they happen to be there for others.
If you keep your troubles to your chest, how do you expect to get help from the others you seek to get help from.
I feel like such folks are almost setting themselves up for trouble, as they appear to set these 'tests' for their friends..

Almost as if they are waiting to say 'Aha! I got you! I knew you weren't yadi yah blah blah '. Which frankly irks the hell out of me
If you are inevitably waiting for this to happen then why have that person around in the 1st place!

Communication is VITAL here. At times both parties may be speaking in different languages, wires get crossed, so one party ends up disappointed and other party totally oblivious but viewed as selfish by the disappointed party.


Such I think would continue to be one of the unsolved complexties of necessary human interactions.

Any alternative answers?